Is it just me or has this site been on auto-pilot for some time now?

no you are right and this site is not near what it once was and sad to what it has become and the reasons that brought it to its state it is in today !! not that I know all the reasons for demise , but I have opinions on some reasons , but now I see it as no sense anymore blaming, pointing fingers, fighting augue about it !!
what I can see doing and I implore others to join me as it is and can be up to all of us to rebuild, repair and grow this site back to some sort of resemblance of what it was and who knows , maybe right back to what it was and encourage people to invent some membership $$ back in to help it be great again !
first thing is everyone coming here everyday needs to log on with a renewed sense of fun , support all the ladies and give a feeling of belonging and appreciation , we need to interact more as commenters with each other and enjoy each other company and love of sex and fun ! we need to renew respect and trust and friendship , after all isn't that just ordinary human decency ? communication is key in everyway , we are all here for fun , let's have a bunch of it !! my motto is when I log in is to bring more fun in with me than I plan on taking back out , and funny it works and still have lots of fun and have been told I bring lots to those I chat with
second we all need to reach out to anyone we can to join here, especially former posters ....some folks must have some type of contact with some old posters, reach out to them and coax them back , tell them we are working on a rebuild and we need them back and bring who ever they can contact to come back too!!
I know it is tough but cherry pick or "head hunt" contributors on other sites if you can and let us all know so we can welcome them with open arms if they post here !!
also if you know anyone thinking of posting , encourage them to try here and we will support them !! and remember we are all equals here , we don't need "special" groups , no bullshit, no lies, no fakes, park that at the door please and just bring just honest fun and friendship and know we all are sex lovers here and here for the same reasons !!
use these boards ,they are free as well , speak your mind , value each others opinion if they are in reason that is , talk ,bring in topics no matter what they are , communicate every chance you can , spread the good word every chance you get, welcome posters, support and appreciate .
last if anyone has any other ideas post them here and let's work to get going !!