being inspired in life happens in many ways, i'd like to open some discussion(s) to what inspires everyone here sexually (of course sexually right LOL )
as simple as what inspires you and your spouse/gf/bf to have sex ..is just the time of the week ?? home alone ? or do one of you add to the inspire with some dirty talk? dress up in something sexy? teasing . flashing, nudging/winking ?
or does it involve some porn ? maybe a good vid or just coming here and seeing some other couples or singles??
could alcohol come into play somewhere here LOL??
when I think partly of inspiration I like to think good pics that start the sexual daydream or fantasy in my mind where you can put yourself in the scene depicted in the photo ...see it happen as you walk in to the bedroom/kitchen/living room/bathroom/pool/deck etc and there she is ready to play
tell us what is your favorite(s) that turn your thoughts and get you inspired to get it on with someone ?anyone ?? or add some more questions to get the talk going here ...get inspired and chat and maybe it might lead to more !!

Inspiration has varied through the years in my experience. When I was in my 20’s I didn’t need much inspiration other than a partner I was in a relationship with. As I got older and was settled down inspiration came from things like, that certain look from my partner, having a few drinks on the weekend, quickies when the kids were napping, vacation sex is always great inspiration. I’m just a regular gal who wants it when I want it. :)

I very much agree with you Ms Bare ....inspiration for sex came natural to many of us in our late teen's and 20's . we were all horny, eager and exploring this wonderful world of sex. we were building experience, learning new things about the other sex and ourselves as well !!
as we moved on thru life special occasions, birthdays, vacations, and yes alcohol spurred inspiration for a nice sex romp.
the internet brought on all kinds of new inspiration as we found new things to intrigue us and inspire many re discover the art of self pleasure and seeking new delights of erotica !!
for myself I love great pics that look natural setting , a scene or situation perhaps I could easily see myself in and my dirty mind starts fantasizing of the "rest of the story" unfolds and I am inspired into self pleasure as I dream my naughty dreams

Inspiration finds its best fuel at parties. It's where you try new things or let your hair down. Parties kick start the foreplay. Relationships have to keep creating "parties". And I can see how vacations are sort of an automatic party atmosphere ;)

Maybe the question is "What seduction has worked on you?" I really smile when I recall having been seduced ;)

I think the best couple types of seduction for me are ...first flirting ...that escalates and you know that it likely going to go further and especially when her side of the flirt escalates faster than yours and you recognize the flirt is now her seducing you .... I like to resist a little at first and let her think she needs to step up her game before I surrender to her charms !!
the other is just appreciating the full out "assault" a delectable gal can muster up , the touching and rubbing your arm with her had, the leaning in real close , the whisper in your ear accompanied by a warm breathe .....a nice extended flash of thigh when the skirt goes up or a sweet down blouse view and you both know it is solidly intentional and just for you only !!
then the whisper in the ear with some dirty talk maybe accompanied with a hand that cups your crotch under the table ........

An intriguing conversation you started LL. Meatloaf had some words in his song about dashboard lights. The only problem with that is if the dashboard lights were on so were the parking lights and the cops would bust ya. There was a certain innocent beauty about fumbling about back in the day. Many things you and Ms.Bare brought up, brought a flood of good memories. Thankfully Sugar and I knew of places. Sugar does say she is a cheep date. One good gin & tonic the way I make them and I'll leave it at that.

thanks Grumpy and glad you can join in the conversation here , I feel we all come here and enjoy the same fine ladies and express ourselves with similar appreciative comments of the sexy gracious gals we should take it all further and chat here ...it costs nothing but can be so valuable in rebuilding the sense of community that once was here and I believe can be revived !!
I too have enjoyed the "innocent beauty" of those fumbling by the dash board lights
living in rural Ontario provided us all with plenty of "parking" spots to do the backseat tango so to speak
vacant farms and fields, lots of secluded back roads, bush lots , even old gravel pits etc to take your lady friend , girlfriend or one night stand
now back in the day , the younger days I might add, the inspiration was to find a "dolly" to treat me right and treat her right as well and slip off to do some back road frolicking . of course a cooler with refreshments was always along and I do agree gin was a great elixir to height the mood of your favorite girl , back then we referred to it as "panty remover" LOL