Just completed a 5 day trial. Overall not a bad experience, some positive more negative.
Nice to have access to resident posts but there really aren't many that stand out. Most females don't even bother to respond to private messages.
But for 3 women I was ignored by 35 others.
I enjoyed chatting and trading with them.
And got an email address for a potential meet up.
I'm a young guy very active with the females in my case residency is not required.
There are enough citizen posts to keep me occupied.
Hope this helps anyone considering the option.

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always nice to have opinions to read and help others make decisions and calculate thoughts !!
I have toyed with getting residency membership
and with opinions I feel they create questions , if you don't mind them ask ?
first you mentioned contact with 35 woman and only 3 respond ...how was your approach to them worded ?? Cordial ? or in a nature of adult websites and naughty and inviting ?? was it all the same approach and did you persist or refuted quickly and give up ??
where you surprised at the no response ?? what were your expectations ?? conversation? trading pics , hook ups ?? online relationship ??
is the meet up you mentioned going to happen ?? and again what are your expectations as this traditionally is not a "hookup" site .....or is it ?? am I missing something ??
thanks

I think that Lonely Planets summary is pretty accurate. I’m a long time resident, and have noted that there has been a severe decline in residents and resident activity in the last three years or so, not the fun place it used to be....

You asked about approach manner, for me a simple intro like “Hi, I really enjoy your pics and body” works best.

We are all on here to get something from it, in my case it’s definitely not for hook ups. I enjoy compliments on my body, and talking about my sex life in general....

Xxxxx

hello
yes I do agree and he does make great points . I just had a few questions .
when I started coming here I was amazed how wonderful this site was and how it was a great community of friends and how well people interacted . one constant thing was you always knew where you stood with individuals here and the rules and lines where very clear !! the site was a lot of fun and you knew what to expect and even if you did step out of line the site you were told in a polite way , given a second chance and if it continued you were out !!
now things have regressed and I am not sure where it is going here I can't gauge how folks interact now
I always approached people with respect and friendship and still do , my interest is always with people I am intrigued to get to know them and for them to know me and semi struggled with that here , because adult websites can be 'confusing" to say the least !!
and who I am is a guy that adores females , everything lady as per my nic and love hearing ladies perspective on sex, sexual experiences, fantasies, likes dislikes and feelings .
I am a good listener , trustworthy , give respect and take respect and like to know where the line is and never cross it !! as I say friends are important and I always like to make new ones as well
I can get naughty and like naughty back but like it done with some resemblance of class and decency !!
I have never been looking into hook ups here just some good sexy friendship and fun

Understood. So what is your question?

If you are a non resident it’s almost impossible to interact, the only way is via guestbooks - comments there are for all to see. I’m not really comfortable with that..and can’t share pictures or private messages. I believe all that you say, but if you are not a resident then there is no way to communicate other than on open / visible forums.

Not sure how you get a 5 day free trial? Can’t find details anywhere? If you can do so then try it, you might just enjoy it...

All that being said, the annual fee is very low - so if you are interested give it a shot!

Xxxx

Hello
My understanding is that the 5 day trial is offered to new citizen's.
I took the time to explore, checked out at least 100 blogs and contacted those I found exciting. My approach was always cordial and complimentary.
I had previous contact with 2 of the women that responded and also came to realize that about a third of the blogs had been inactive for a significant period of time.
The meet up will happen but it's only because as luck would have it we already know each other.
If you have a desire for discretion residency is for you. I don't mind saying things to beautiful women in an open forum but there is a work around.
1 of the women and I opened separate accounts and only follow each other, it allows us to communicate and share privately.
Probably shouldn't have mentioned that but.
Again in my opinion there just aren't that many active resident accounts that are truly exciting, and if people don't bother to respond then...
Englishrose is right we're only talking 25 bucks here.
I do have 1 concern though, is this site secure? I've heard some feedback about hacking and criminal activity.

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