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  Jan 2013
 Sun Mar 05, 2017 18:30  by  luvladies

a few questions on your thoughts and ideas as you graciously post for enjoyment !!
here we go
1.....what got you into posting naked ??
2.....was posting naked , your idea or your partner , how much urging did you need ??
3......tell us how posting makes you feel ??
4......how has posting naked , changed you personally?....changed your sex life ??
5......do you post sex acts??....if you do , tell us your thoughts? if not tell us your reason or reservations?.......btw .....I respect everyone and understand for not !!
6......do others close to you know of your "naked hobby"
7......have you ever encouraged a friend to try posting or if they do discussed things ??
8......what would your advise be to ladies (couples) out there about submitting pics?
9.......has any of your ideas, expectations, thoughts changed since you started posting to sites
10......do you ever regret sending something ??
11......how do you handle negativity ??


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  Feb 2013
 Mon Mar 06, 2017 07:12  by  Ms Bare

Good questions LL. I've always wondered why other posters post. I'll answer what I can.

1. what got you into posting naked ??

I found the old VW Tit Flash site and lurked around for awhile before I made my first post. I was just curious as to whether my boobs would get a good response. I had no intention of going beyond a post or two.

2. was posting naked , your idea or your partner , how much urging did you need ??

All my idea.

3. tell us how posting makes you feel ??

I get a kick out of posting. It's fun to take selfies and do it my way. I love the comments and the banter a post can create. I like being in charge of my posts, of what and how much I'll share.

4. how has posting naked , changed you personally?....changed your sex life ??

Posting has boosted my confidence. Being here has opened my mind to many new ideas and fantasies. I never knew I had this side to me. As far as sex life. When I first started posting it was so exciting and new to me that I was constantly frisky. It was definitely great for a few months.

5. do you post sex acts??....if you do , tell us your thoughts? if not tell us your reason or reservations?.......btw .....I respect everyone and understand for not !!

We all know that's a No from me :) Call me old fashioned but some things I rather keep private.

6. do others close to you know of your "naked hobby"

Shhh....it's our secret.

7. have you ever encouraged a friend to try posting or if they do discussed things ??

No.

8. what would your advise be to ladies (couples) out there about submitting pics?

I'd say post to have fun and do your own thing. Don't make it all about trying to win contests or about ranking. Certain posters here seem obsessed with trying to be top ranked.

9. has any of your ideas, expectations, thoughts changed since you started posting to sites

Not sure if it's me that's changed or the site but posting for me is not what it used to be. I've cut down quite a bit and I'm not sure if I'll continue for much longer.

10. do you ever regret sending something ??

If by sending you mean posting I don't have any regrets but looking back at some of my early pics I laugh at some of the bad quality pics I shared. Yikes :)

11.how do you handle negativity ??

Luckily I haven't had much negativity in all the time I've been here. I think if you treat everyone with the kindness you expect then we can all get along. When I have had negativity I ignore and delete the comments. Or I'll have my say and let them know what I think about their opinions. It is my blog after all.

So LL...why are you here? Is it all about the naked women or do you care more for the interaction with folks?


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  Dec 2012
 Mon Mar 06, 2017 20:15  by  Pixellator

Answered by HIM for HER since she doesn't get on VC ... but honestly.

1.....what got you into posting naked ??

We were already nudists and already enjoying nude photography before posting ever became a "thing". We discovered the old VW site and did some tentative posting there. There was an active social component to the old VW which led to the discovery of others in our region who enjoyed the same things, and that put a new degree of fun into it.

2.....was posting naked , your idea or your partner , how much urging did you need ??

Posting was my (husband's) idea. She had all the obvious concerns, all swirling around anonymity. But suitably anonymized, she was fine with it.

3......tell us how posting makes you feel ??

She probably wouldn't come out and say it this way, but she gets an ego boost from seeing that she really does look damned fine. The photos let her see herself through my eyes - how beautiful and sexy she is - rather than through her own, over-concerned with this or that that she was self-conscious about. The fact that so many others (thousands) also think she looks damned fine does good things for her self-image.

4......how has posting naked , changed you personally?....changed your sex life ??

It's been a door opener to considering things that might never have been explored otherwise. And still is.

5......do you post sex acts??....if you do , tell us your thoughts? if not tell us your reason or reservations?.......btw .....I respect everyone and understand for not !!

Yes, we do, but not often. The "not often" is mostly because it's just a much smaller part of what we do. Most of our photos come from life and circumstances as lived. That includes sex, of course, but it's not often that that happens in a way such that it is natural to have sex AND make photos. Sex selfies to me always look pretty crappy and hold no interest for me. That's why the almost all the sex acts we do post are of Mrs. Pix with someone besides me. Reservations? Mostly the same concerns over anonymity. Otherwise, not much concern.

6......do others close to you know of your "naked hobby"

No. We have friends who we share the fun with, but no one "close".

7......have you ever encouraged a friend to try posting or if they do discussed things ??

No.

8......what would your advise be to ladies (couples) out there about submitting pics?

Do what is fun for you. Do be careful about your identity or things that can help identify you, unless, of course, you REALLY don't care. Remember that because of morals clauses, YOU might not care, but your employer might. That would suck. Besides blurring or obliterating faces, think about things like tattoos, signature jewelry, backgrounds that might be recognized by family or friends. Just be careful.

9.......has any of your ideas, expectations, thoughts changed since you started posting to sites

Speaking for her, I would say yes. The experience has led to a lot of new and different experiences over time and has driven a lot of personal evolution that is still ongoing. Just ten years ago I would not have had any idea where we have come to in just the last couple of years. Who knows what's next?

10......do you ever regret sending something ??

She doesn't really pay attention to our postings, so by default I would say that she doesn't harbor any regrets. Once in a while I will show her something that I particularly like, and if it's been a good while since she has paid attention she may get some fresh butterflies for a moment. But she sees that I've done a good job anonymizing and she's able to let that go and appreciate the pics. Her comfort shows more in the doing than in the viewing. There is so much that she does "for the camera" that she knows perfectly well is destined to be shown to the world ... if she had any regrets she would not continue putting herself out there.

11......how do you handle negativity ??

Bitch slap. But seriously ... mostly I ignore it. As others do, sometimes I will delete crude or negative comments - don't need that crap stinking up the blog. But unfortunately, haters gonna hate. It's a bit funny, though sad, how some posters go to lengths to manipulate - to one-up others or to win contests or collect followers or boost their popularity. I don't do any of those things and don't try to call out those who do. I don't really care except in the whistful sense that I would prefer that this community were more mutually respectful. But since that's a bit much to expect from a porn site I just sit back and watch the schemers and haters do their thing. I am more interested in positive-minded people.


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  Sep 2016
 Mon Mar 06, 2017 23:49  by  HotEllie

OK; I'll play.

1.....what got you into posting naked ??

My DH and I enjoy going out together, and he started pointing out men who are looking at me but trying to pretend not to. I get a kick out of being "noticed", especially when we vacation in St. Martin, with its wonderful topless beaches.

2.....was posting naked , your idea or your partner , how much urging did you need ??

It was my idea; a carryover and expansion of my enjoyment as an exhibitionist.

3......tell us how posting makes you feel ??

Sexy

4......how has posting naked , changed you personally?....changed your sex life ??

No real change. DH and I have always had a fairly adventurous sex life.

5......do you post sex acts??....if you do , tell us your thoughts? if not tell us your reason or reservations?.......btw .....I respect everyone and understand for not !!

Nope.

6......do others close to you know of your "naked hobby"

LOL. No way.

7......have you ever encouraged a friend to try posting or if they do discussed things ??

Nope.

8......what would your advise be to ladies (couples) out there about submitting pics?

Have fun and only do what you are comfortable with. Never post pics or enagage in anything just to please your partner.

9.......has any of your ideas, expectations, thoughts changed since you started posting to sites

Not really.

10......do you ever regret sending something ??

Occasionally. I have used the Remove Post button to keep my portfolio within the 3 page limit for non-paying members. The site owner here does not make keeping all of my pics here possible, as I cannot access more than three pages and I don't like having less than complete control of all of my pictures.

11......how do you handle negativity ??

If I get a derogatory comment, I remove the comment and block that author.



  Jan 2013
 Tue Mar 07, 2017 01:53  by  luvladies

thank you ladies and sir .....great answers .......I guess I will act as moderator here and encourage and comment of some of the answers......
~Ms Bare ~you mentioned the idea was yours and you wanted to "compare" , do you think that is a fair assumption with most ladies ?? also you say you had no intention of going past a couple posts , what changed that thinking ??
~Pixellator~ I like your comment on the ego boost , many here are old enough and grew up with first exposure to sex was studio porn and touched up photos from mags like Playboy and Penthouse where mens (and women's) ideas of what woman where to look like naked do you think it has made woman more at ease of showing their body off and generally feel less nervous and more exhibitionist?? also do you think it has shaped men's thinking as well that ladies can be sexy with not being the "perceived perfect " publishers seemed to push on us ??
~Hot Elle......you say posting makes you feel "sexy" ( and understandably) has that spilled into real life and changed how you dress or act ?? does it make you more aware that people are looking at you , girl watching I guess, and do find you turn it up a notch now in public to repeat that feeling ?



  Jan 2013
 Tue Mar 07, 2017 02:20  by  luvladies

and to answer Ms Bare's great question

So LL why are you here ??Is it all about the naked women or do you care more about the interaction with folks?
first yes to point one, I am a man and I like looking at woman , especially naked ones !! my nic says it all I think !! I adore women all kinds of women but I like all things woman and every thing and evryway a woman can be..... simple and frilly to strong and assertive, I like woman that are proud to be a women and show it !! i treat woman as equals and accept them as strong friends and their opinions and ideas matter to me !! i could go on and on if you like ?
as for the interaction ...yes and i wish there was more , i like many here and lot's of great ideas and great thinking and not just sex , i love to have fun and i will be honest i want people to like me !!


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  Oct 2012
 Tue Mar 07, 2017 23:05  by  Belle

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Would be nice to see new energy here. For me . . .

1.....what got you into posting naked ??

Cajoled into modelling for my hobbyist photographer husband. Posted a handful of tame contributions at VW before the transition here.

2.....was posting naked , your idea or your partner , how much urging did you need ??

On a dare from my husband. He is still working off that debt.

3......tell us how posting makes you feel ??

The photo session foreplay is primary. The posting is collateral fun.

4......how has posting naked , changed you personally?....changed your sex life ??

Would not call it metamorphic, but I enjoy how it excites my husband.

5......do you post sex acts??....if you do , tell us your thoughts? if not tell us your reason or reservations?.......btw .....I respect everyone and understand for not !!

The proof is in the videos.

6......do others close to you know of your "naked hobby"

No idea, but the want of a clear face display probably leaves at least a reasonable doubt with the suspicious.

7......have you ever encouraged a friend to try posting or if they do discussed things ??

No, not much of a joiner.

8......what would your advise be to ladies (couples) out there about submitting pics?

Longevity here depends on self-motivation. The critics of the absentee site administration, contest inequities, negative comments, etc., all have legitimate grievances. For me, it took a hiatus and return to appreciate this site as a mere tool for personal enjoyment. If you seek some other validation, you will likely experience disappointment.

9.......has any of your ideas, expectations, thoughts changed since you started posting to sites

Despite my perspective on the site itself, the community here is much more accommodating to, and even nurturing of, older ladies like myself. Far fewer misogynistic and immature undertones. Do not miss the "This is a NUDE site" type insults at VW.

10......do you ever regret sending something ??

Perhaps not being sufficiently laudatory about other contributions. Most of us probably do not appreciate the effort (practical as well as psychological) it takes to post, and post consistently.

11......how do you handle negativity ??

Just look beyond to the next positive, which will always be there. Cheers.


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  Feb 2013
 Wed Mar 08, 2017 00:44  by  Ms Bare

**Ms Bare ~you mentioned the idea was yours and you wanted to "compare" , do you think that is a fair assumption with most ladies ??**

Oh no, no, no. I did not say I wanted to compare. I do not compare myself to anyone. I do my own thing, my own way. I said...

I was just curious as to whether my boobs would get a good response.

I can't speak for anyone but myself as to why they post. Hopefully more posters will participate on your thread :)

**also you say you had no intention of going past a couple posts , what changed that thinking ??**

I continued because at first it was a sassy thrill to do something so "not me." It's still fun but now I enjoy the interaction and chatting with friends more than the posting.



  Dec 2013
 Wed Mar 08, 2017 03:33  by  rahul dev

thank u Luvladies for this thread...
great to see beautiful ladies posting to this thread...
nice reading all the answers
thank u lovely ladies



  Jan 2013
 Wed Mar 08, 2017 13:27  by  luvladies

so sorry Ms Bare I did not mean it that way , I know you never compare or get in completion ..and your special way is why I adore you so much ! and yes come for naked and stay for the conversation !! I like that LOL so many loose sight that we are all diverse yet the same and we can't lose the fine art of chat and discussion !!


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  Sep 2016
 Wed Mar 08, 2017 19:06  by  HotEllie

~Hot Elle......you say posting makes you feel "sexy" ( and understandably) has that spilled into real life and changed how you dress or act ?? does it make you more aware that people are looking at you , girl watching I guess, and do find you turn it up a notch now in public to repeat that feeling ?

Posting has not changed anything, it is just a form of sharing what I enjoy doing, and have enjoyed for a number of years. Posting here just expands the potential audience a bit. :-)



  Jan 2013
 Thu Mar 09, 2017 01:06  by  luvladies

I guess I should of left things at the original questions !!!! :(



  Apr 2014
 Fri Mar 10, 2017 05:19  by  Roxy

Some of my followers told me about this thread and asked why I don't respond. So I think it will be fun so here's my response for what it's worth. Lol
1.....what got you into posting naked ??
My hubby wanted us to post some pics of me. I didn't want to at first but I agreed if he would blur my face. When he did I said ok. But over time I let there be less and less blurring. I'm getting bolder! Lol

2.....was posting naked , your idea or your partner , how much urging did you need ??
My hubby's. I needed a lot of urging. I don't want to get recognized in our public lives.

3......tell us how posting makes you feel ??
Hot! Horny! Wet! Ooh baby! I luv the hot comments and Chatting! My hubby doesn't mind as long as I don't do live cam. That's fine with me!



  Apr 2014
 Fri Mar 10, 2017 05:35  by  Roxy

4......how has posting naked , changed you personally?....changed your sex life ??
Made me much less inhibited. Made our sex life much more adventurous and I'm pretty much game now to try anything. I love now being more sexual and more confident dressing sexy and having men look at me.

5......do you post sex acts??....if you do , tell us your thoughts? if not tell us your reason or reservations?.......btw .....I respect everyone and understand for not !!
Yes. We usually have a video running often when we have sex. It's fun to look at it later play it while we're already in playing. We sometimes will take pics or have someone video but that kind of effects the spontaneity. Our lighting usually isn't great because it's for our mood and not for making a professional film. But we are able to get screenshots that we post that I know you guys enjoy.

6......do others close to you know of your "naked hobby"
A few.

7......have you ever encouraged a friend to try posting or if they do discussed things ??
Yes.

8......what would your advise be to ladies (couples) out there about submitting pics?
Only post one or a few pics at one time. To see photo after photo of similar poses is just really not what we think is exciting. Others may have a different opinion. But I find I get many more licks when we post only one or two at a time, than I get when I post more, as the later pics pics don't get as many licks.

9.......has any of your ideas, expectations, thoughts changed since you started posting to sites
Definitely! I've become so much less inhibited. I've become much more confident in dressing sexy and teasing when were out. I now love having men look at me and feeling that they want me. I've become much more adventurous as has our sex life. But I always make my hubby know that he is my love and I'm always his. I love when I excite him by doing things he asks me to do that he doesn't expect me to be willing to do. It's really made our life so much more exciting.

10......do you ever regret sending something ??
Can't think of anything?

11......how do you handle negativity ??
Can't think of any that I've ever gotten on this site??


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