1....how quick do you get back into dating ?
If I was coming out of a long-term, monogamous relationship:
High: 6 months
Low: 3 months
2....are you reluctant , as you have not dated since you got married and feel out of practice?
No, not reluctant at all. Diving in with a smile. :)
3....if you jump back in is it because ...A...you need companionship....B you met some one nice...C friends hooked you up ..or D...you are horny as fuck and want a partner ?
B.A.D. Hahahahahaha! Met someone nice, I enjoy companionship and horny happens (even outside Vegas) :P
4.....how soon do you want or allow the relationship to turn sexual ?
High: 20 dates
Low: 5 dates
5....if you want sex but are you inhibited by things like body, being with a new partner or fear of what the person thinks of you ?
I’ll just say I want to make sure I know my breakfast plans before I try for “second base”. Winging it feels rude to me. Yes, it *can* happen, but seriously… Worst date I ever backed out of was the one where I said I wasn’t staying over. I hadn’t thought of my breakfast plans and still was so selfish that I’d opened her buttons up. Ugh. That was baaaaad. I felt like such a worm.
6...are you open now to do and try new things, techniques, sex acts that a new partner maybe bring into the bedroom ?
Yes. Ought to involve shopping though IMHO. Great way to talk about it and breaking the ice!
7 .....if you were into certain things considered "off beat", kinky or different do you or when do you spring those into the bedroom fun ...part b how do you present them ??
Waaaaaay after date #20… Probably presented while on second base (or her on my second base) and on second base for the umpteenth time. That is to say when we’re relaxed. Not in the heat of the moment, not out of left field, not in public.
8...second part of above ...how would you want a new partner to bring them on to you ....Just do it?, talk to you about it ??
Not in public, but I wouldn’t mind it coming from the outfield. I *do* think from second is best. It’s *such* a good place.
